i've realised recently that friendship isn't just wat i've always thought it was. i mean, up till now, i'd never hesitate to tell pple tt they should know lots bout a good friend. i mean how can you call someone your best friend when you know so little bout their personal life right?

now i see how shallow tt statement really is - because knowing where they live, what they like to eat or who they're going out with really isn't relevant when you're connecting with someone on a deeper level, one tt transcends such worldly distractions (it's really not as profound as it sounds).

i don't know if i can ever do tt, cos i think not being in the know makes me feel insecure. i reckon i'll grow up to be a control freak wife and mother. oh how horrific. let's just not grow up, ok?