at daddy's hse again and he's starting to piss me off. i told him mummy drew bout 1k frm his acct to pay for zehzeh's insurance cos she got not enough money. (daddy doesn't pay zehzeh's insurance cos he says since they started it under mummy's name, it might as well remain tt way). then daddy said wat you mean not enough money (gives irritated look). tsk, not enough means not enough lah.

daddy: but i let her have most of the money when we sold the hse wat.

OK, LIKE WHAT THE HELL IS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM. you don't want to fucking insure us, then don't expect anything in return. you think children come for free is it? and don't even mention the hse. tt was 7 yrs ago lah.

daddy: 250 000$ you know. how come now not enough money?
me: then, we buy new hse no need money ah? (our place costs bout 350 000+ bout 60 000cash)
daddy: ... uncle jeffrey?

oh gee thanks, dad. go ahead, have children and then expect other pple to pay for their housing, insurance and wat not. and don't forget, we have to use tt money for zehzeh's uni fees cos you didn't want to pay for tt (just cos zehzeh's education insurance thing is under mummy's name). then still need to pay lawyer's fees for divorce; mummy not working how to pay? sell backside ah?

me: uncle jeffrey is already also paying for his uncle's old folks home stay.

plus, he earns less than you. and mummy doesn't work (paid work, i mean). and she still gives angbaos all her nieces and nephews, including her cousins' kids and those from jb. while you, i suppose, are saving quite a bit of money since you just announced to me tt family tradition denotes that you don't give angbaos to nieces/nephews who are working but not yet married. you don't even give monthly money to grandpa (but the old foggy still gets gahmen pension so it's ok).

i'm utterly disappointed in you, dad. thought you were waking up your idea and making good.